Sins, and
sex & marriage.
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THE TWO
BASIC KINDS OF SINS:
SPIRITUAL SINS & NATURAL SINS.
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1) SPIRITUAL SINS
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Before God had
cursed the ground:
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when we were still in the lush garden
of Eden
& so had all our
bodily needs met,
and there were only two of us
so there was no
possibility of adultery,
before the tree of life became
unavailable
so there was not yet
the certainty of death,
Satan could tempt
us to commit only spiritual sins:
pride; vanity;
jealousy; hatred; unrighteous anger;
fear (when you know you
should be trusting God);
, , , Rom c14 v23: ctd … for
whatsoever is not of faith is sin. KJV
bitterness;
fruitless regret; idolatry; etc,
sins that don’t need a
body, only a self,
sins that Satan is used
to committing.
Indeed, the only sort of sins that Satan can
commit.
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But
now that we are under the pressures of:
limited resources
& a finite
life,
Satan/demons can tempt us to
commit:
natural sins
too,
sins you need a body
for,
sins no demon can
commit.
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1a) THE
TWO UNFORGIVABLE SINS: BOTH SPIRITUAL.
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Of the
following two sins:
A) is commonly called “the unforgivable sin”
but B) could also be thought
of as an unforgivable sin.
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A) Permanently rejecting God’s Spirit,
calling God’s miracles “Satan’s
work”:
I.E. Having convincingly heard/seen/read about God’s Spirit
so that you know, in your mind, that God heals us,
but have started to eternally refuse to believe it,
in your, presumably bad, heart/spirit.
Matt
c12 v22-32 (Mark c3 v22-30):
Then was
brought unto him one possessed with a devil,
blind, and dumb:
and he healed him,
insomuch that the blind and
dumb both spake and saw.
And all the people were
amazed, and said,
Is not this the son of
David?
But when the Pharisees heard
it, they said,
This fellow doth not cast out devils, but
by Beelzebub
the prince of the
devils.
And Jesus knew their
thoughts, and said unto them,
Every kingdom divided
against itself
is brought to
desolation;
and every city or house
divided against itself
shall not stand:
And if Satan cast out
Satan,
he is divided against
himself;
how shall then his
kingdom stand?
And if I by Beelzebub
cast out devils,
by whom do your
children [followers] cast them out?
therefore
they shall be your judges.
But if I cast out
devils by the Spirit of God,
then the kingdom of God is come unto
you.
Or else how can one
enter into a strong man's house,
and spoil [rob] his goods,
except he first bind
the strong man?
and
then he will spoil his house.
He that is not with me
is against me;
and he that gathereth not with me scattereth
abroad.
Wherefore I say unto
you,
All manner of sin
and blasphemy
shall be forgiven
unto men:
but the blasphemy
against the Holy Ghost
shall not be
forgiven unto men.
And whosoever speaketh a word against
the Son of man,
it shall be forgiven
him:
but whosoever speaketh against
the Holy Ghost,
it shall not be
forgiven him,
neither in this
world,
neither in the world to come. KJV
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B) Permanently
rejecting Jesus
despite seeing miracles & understanding the Gospel:
I.E. Having convincingly heard/seen/read about God’s Son
so that you know, in
your mind, that God has Forgiven our sins,
but have started to eternally refuse to believe it,
in your, presumably bad, heart/spirit.
John c3 v36:
He that believeth on the
Son hath everlasting life:
and he that believeth not
the Son shall not see life;
but the wrath of God
abideth on him. KJV
John c5 v22-23:
For the Father judgeth no man,
but hath committed all
judgment unto the Son:
that all men should honour the Son,
even
as they honour the Father.
He that honoureth not the Son
honoureth
not the Father which hath sent him.
KJV
John c8 v24:
I said
therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins:
for if ye believe not that
I am he,
ye shall die in your sins. KJV
John c12 v47-48:
And if any man hear my
words, and believe not,
I judge him not:
for I came not to judge
the world,
but to save the world.
He that rejecteth me, and receiveth not
my words,
hath one that judgeth him:
the word that I have
spoken,
the same shall judge him
in the last day. KJV
, , So, merely speaking
against Jesus – is forgivable.
, , But actually rejecting
Jesus – is unforgivable.
, , (Makes sense to me.)
, , Whereas merely speaking against God’s Spirit – is
unforgivable.
, , E.G. Speaking against
a healing miracle that’s obviously of God.
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Biblically:
The above two kinds of
unforgivable sins
will send someone to Hell.
Technically:
Unforgivable sins are not sins,
are not actions that will send
someone to Hell.
Unforgivable sins
are the heart/spirit
finally revealing
itself, finally expressing itself.
Unforgivable sins
are not causes but effects:
effects,
symptoms, of the wicked.
, , , , Perhaps see earlier section:
, , , , JESUS’ USE OF THE
WORDS ‘RIGHTEOUS’ AND ‘WICKED’, , , ,
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SO, WHY DID JESUS PHRASE THEM
AS SINS,
AS CAUSES NOT EFFECTS?
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So, why did
Jesus phrase unforgivable sins:
as sins
not as self-expression,
as causes of punishment to
come
not as effects of bad
hearts/spirits.
Because:
X) The world has limited resources.
And we each have concentric
circles of selfishness
and have to earn what we get.
, Perhaps see earlier sections: WHY THE UNIVERSE IS SECOND CLASS
, and, immediately after it:
, IN WHAT WAYS DID GOD MAKE THE UNIVERSE SECOND CLASS? .
So the world is very different
from
the creative,
constructive, self-sacrificing, generous, God
and his abundant kingdom of Heaven.
, , , Perhaps see earlier section: MORE
KINGDOMS.
, , , Though also see seventh cell
, , , (starting All this makes sense)
, , , of later section: GOD’S
SOVEREIGNTY.
Y) During
the three years of Jesus’ ministry:
his crucifixion &
resurrection, & Pentecost,
had not yet happened.
So those three years were:
New Testament
but not yet New
Covenant
, , , Perhaps see part 4) of earlier section:
, , , GOD DOES NOT CHANGE BUT HIS RELATIONSHIP
WITH US CHANGES.
Combining X) and Y):
During those three years,
i.e. during Jesus’ ministry:
no-one, yet,
truly understood/appreciated/‘saw’
God’s great mercy
and grace towards us.
But everyone still
understood the world.
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Hence, so that everyone could understand God:
Jesus intuitively
phrased many of his sayings
with the cause
& effect the wrong way round,
the world’s way
round.
, , , , Hence the gospels are
unlike the rest of the New Testament.
For example: the
Forgiveness-deal, in the Lord’s Prayer,
is a piece of Old Covenant logic:
It has the cause
& effect the wrong way round,
the world’s way
round.
, , , , See earlier section: FORGIVE US AS WE
, , , , and immediately after it:
, , , , WHY IS THE ABOVE IN
THIS JUDGMENT COLUMN?.
Likewise, Jesus called
unforgivable sins just that, sins:
things you have done
things that will cause you to be punished later.
Even the wicked could
understand the above,
never mind the
still-worldly righteous.
, , , , Perhaps see earlier sections:
, , , , JESUS’ USE OF THE
WORDS ‘RIGHTEOUS’ AND ‘WICKED’.
, , , , and:
, , , , THIS APPARENT
MISUNDERSTANDING IS NO ACCIDENT, , , ,
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2) NATURAL SINS
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Natural sins,
fleshly sins, need a body.
Hence natural sins are committed by humans, not by demons.
However:
if a demon suggests a
natural sin to you
and you then commit it,
then the demon is gets:
self-expression,
satisfaction, ‘life’.
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The demon gets
self-expression:
even though it’s only you
committing it
and the demon is merely
providing suggestions.
even
though the guilt is yours
and yours alone.
, , This guilt would
be only felt guilt – the
Cross having already happened.
, , Perhaps see
earlier webpage: How God Forgave us
all.,,,
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Perhaps see earlier sections: SATAN LIKES IT HERE and: WE ARE PLAYGROUNDS,,,,,,
and the first four cells
of earlier section: THE BASIC MECHANICES, ,,,,,
and
earlier section: ANOTHER EXAMPLE:
TEMPTATIONS. ,,,,,
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SINS ARE DIGITAL, NOT ANALOGUE,
AND ARE GOD’S MEASURE.
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A sin does not have a size.
A sin is digital, not analogue.
Hence a small sin is the
same size as a big sin
and a big sin is the same
size as a small sin.
Matt c5 v27-28:
Ye have heard that it was
said by them of old time,
Thou shalt not
commit adultery:
but I say unto you,
That whosoever looketh
on a woman to lust after her
hath committed adultery with her already
in his heart. KJV
, , , (Committing
adultery was punishable by death in Jesus’ time.)
Matt c5 v21-22:
Ye have heard that it
was said by them of old time,
Thou shalt not
kill;
and whosoever shall kill
shall be in danger of
the judgment:
but I say unto you,
That whosoever is angry with his brother
without a cause
shall be in danger of the judgment:
and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca,
shall be in danger of the council:
but whosoever shall say, Thou fool,
shall be in danger of hell fire. KJV
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Sins are digital, not analogue,
because God’s task will be digital,
not analogue:
He will let that person into Heaven.
Or he will not let that person into Heaven.
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To sin = to miss
the moral target (as in archery).
Sources: Revival Today (site gone), and Wikipedia:
Hamartia.
You
have hit the target.
Or you have missed the
target.
Sins are God’s way
of measuring us.
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Social/cultural/civil/legal wrongs
(horizontal, human to human)
are analogue:
hence they vary greatly
from huge & serious
to
tiny & of little
importance.
Sins
(vertical, us to God)
are digital:
hence your smallest sin,
in God’s eyes & mind,
ruins you.
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A social/cultural/civil/legal
wrong
is a practical, useful, form of measurement:
by one human
of another human.
A sin
is an impractical, useless, form of measurement:
by one human
of another human.
Sins are God’s way
of measuring us.
Perhaps see earlier sections:
THE TWO ACCOUNTS
and:
CONCLUSION TO THE TWO ACCOUNTS, , , ,
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TECHNICALLY SPEAKING:
SINS NO LONGER EXIST
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Most of us
have, to some degree,
done wrong to others.
Most of us have also got angry
at wrongs done to us & to others.
God rarely gets involved in human affairs.
But he has opinions on all of them.
And his standards are high, indeed perfect.
Perhaps see Bible texts in earlier section:
BUT, INSTEAD, FIRST OF ALL,
JESUS SEEMED TO MAGNIFY JEWISH LAWS.
Hence all our wrongs against each other
also offend our designer & maker.
All our wrongs against each other
are also sins.
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Hence, technically
speaking, we each have two
accounts:
1. Our
horizontal account,
with the world:
a debt of social/cultural/civil/civil/legal wrongs.
2. Our
vertical account,
with God:
a debt of sins.
Our social/cultural/civil/legal wrongs are against people.
Our sins are against God.
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But, two-thousand years ago,
God settled all our
with-him accounts
using his Son’s willing self-sacrifice in our place.
So, now, our sins do not exist.
So, now, God cannot see them.
So our social/cultural/civil/civil/legal wrongs still exist,
but our sins
do not exist.
But do you believe it
and do you believe it applies to you?
Or do you insist on keeping your
own righteousness?
, Hence, technically speaking, the sinner’s prayer
is wrong:
, , It should not be:
, , , God, please Forgive me for my sins.
, , It should be:
, , , God, thank you for having already Forgiven
, , , all of us, for all of our sins, via the Cross.
, , , I am one of those who believes it.
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All this section is
copied from earlier section: THE TWO ACCOUNTS, , , ,
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WHY
CHRISTIANS AVOID SINNING
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There are at
least seven reasons
why a believer would want to not sin:
1) Because
a believer is grateful for:
o God’s
Forgiveness (by way of the Cross).
o Miracles, healings,
& blessings, in this life.
o The help of God’s
indwelling Holy Spirit.
o A perfect, eternal,
life to come.
o The joy that all the
above brings.
o Etc.
2) Because
a believer wants to do good instead,
even miraculous good,
as a matter of self-expression.
, , Expression of your entire self, heart/spirit and soul
, , (soul = mind +
emotions + cultures).
3) Because
if you, a believer, do sin
then it gives demons the
opportunity to
telepathically accuse you of that sin Rev c12 v10
in order to trick you into
being defensive,
trick you into thinking, even saying,
that you did not do some such wrong. 1 John c1 v8-10
Hence, for that crucial
moment:
You forget, in your mind,
that God has put all of us right with himself.
Hence
belief remains active in your heart/spirit
but becomes
inactive in your mind.
, , , , Perhaps also see later section: UNBELIEF and its subsections.
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and
, , , ,
later section: SIN
CONSCIOUSNESS.
Hence, perhaps
because you are
entangled in
sin, Heb c12 v1,
demons
can give you a sickness,
or can succeed in encouraging you
to accept your sickness.
John c5 v14:
Afterward Jesus findeth him in the temple,
and
said unto him,
Behold, thou art made whole:
sin no more,
lest
a worse thing come unto thee. KJV
Luke c13 v16:
And
ought not this woman,
being a daughter
of Abraham,
whom Satan hath
bound, lo, these eighteen years,
be loosed from
this bond on the sabbath day? KJV
Matt c9 v32-33:
Jesus healed a man of dumbness
by casting out a
demon from him. my
abbreviation
Matt c12 v22 Luke c11 v14:
Jesus healed a man of
blindness & dumbness
by casting out a
demon from him. my
abbreviation
, , , , Perhaps see earlier section:
, , , , HOW DEMONS ARE
ABLE TO DO THINGS,
, , , , and earlier section:
, , , , SO, – WHERE DO TODAY’S BAD THINGS COME FROM? ,,,,,
, , , , and its subsections.
4) Because sinning:
Still allows mere happiness,
into your soul,
from the outside.
But stops your
heart/spirit
copying its own joy, into your soul,
from the inside.
, , , , See third cell of
earlier section:
, , , , NATURAL BEAUTY & SPIRITUAL BEAUTY., , , ,
, , , , Perhaps see earlier webpage:
, , , , The
spirit & the soul., , , ,
5) Because
sins may bring:
felt guilt
, , , , Perhaps see earlier section: THE
GUILT WE FEEL.
and, if the sin is also a crime, a prison sentence.
6) Because,
technically speaking:
even though sins no longer exist,
wrongs still still
exist
, , , , Perhaps again see earlier section:
, , , , TECHNICALLY SPEAKING: SINS NO LONGER EXIST.
and
God’s Spirit,
who is inside you
if you are a believer,
is grieved if you do wrong. Eph c4 v22-32
The
Cross has put all of us right with
his Father.
Hence the Father
can, and has,
given his
powerful Holy Spirit to all of us.
So,
make your mind a ‘house’
that’s
uncluttered by:
sinful
ways,
unbelief
(doubts),
earthly
distractions,
etc,
so that God’s
miracle-empowering Holy Spirit
can live in every
room of your mind.
7) In light of 1) – 6), it’s not surprising that
sinning works against
your heart/spirit renewing your mind.
, Perhaps follow RENEW
MIND links
, , in first cell of
later section:
, , CHANGES
A BELIEVER MAKES IN THEMSELVES
, , (this link does not
open a new tab).
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Of course ‘believers’
(churchgoers who do not,
actually, believe yet)
avoid sinning in order to:
get themselves right with God
or
stay right with God.
, , , , Perhaps see earlier section: WHY BIBLICAL
TEACHER-HEALERS DO IT
, , , , and all that follows on that webpage.
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GOD’S WORDS ON SIN
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There are laws, in the Old Testament of the
Bible,
that say that many activities, e.g. homosexual behaviour,
are punishable by death. Lev c20 v9-16.
However, there is also a law, in
the Old Testament,
that says that to pick up sticks on a Saturday
is punishable by death.
Exo c31 v12-15 & Exo c35 v1-2 & Num c15 v32-36 combined.
Fortunately, Old Testament laws
don’t apply to Christians anyway.
Perhaps
see earlier section: JEWISH
LAWS ARE NOT FOR GENTILES
and
the section later in that webpage:
SO,
BE CAREFUL NOT TO ENTER INTO THE OLD COVENANT
and perhaps the whole of that webpage.
Hence, regarding Christian
behaviour,
I’ll ignore the Old Testament.
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However, the New Testament
also says that homosexual behaviour
should not be allowed amongst Christians.
Rom c1 v26-27 1 Cor c6 v9-11 1 Tim c1 v8-11 Jude.
(If Paul’s ‘lack of free will’ language
bothers you
then see earlier section:
HOW
PAUL PREACHED ONLY FORGIVENESS,
and perhaps the whole webpage,
and the links within it.
(This link does not open a new tab.))
But, on inspection, these New Testament scriptures
are mostly about anarchy & homosexual promiscuity.
And homosexual promiscuity, being less than human,
is something right-thinking homosexuals also
think wrong.
(Just like right-thinking heterosexuals also think
that heterosexual promiscuity
is less than human, and therefore wrong.)
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Mind you, the above New Testament verses
at least partly condemn
homosexuality.
However, in the light of my, & others’, evidence
that the origin of homosexuality is natural,
(more
about that shortly)
I suggest that the New Testament does not show
that homosexuality is a sin.
Homosexuality is wrong:
from a design point of view,
from a non-subjective point
of view,
from an outsider’s point of
view.
But
homosexuality is not a choice:
So it’s not a sin.
, .. More
about choice shortly.
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So, forgetting about mere wrongs for now (e.g. homosexuality)
and focussing only on sins:
for the most authoritative
point of view on sins,
let’s see what Jesus said.
N.B. I think
that Jesus, being God’s only begotten Son,
told God’s thoughts more authoritatively
than other parts of the Bible tell God’s thoughts.
So, where there is any difference, in letter or in spirit,
between what Jesus says and what other parts say:
then the Jesus parts are
right
and the other parts are
wrong.
I don’t mean Old /
New
Covenant differences, differences that should
be there.
(Perhaps see earlier section: THE
LORD’S PRAYER, and the links within it.)
(This link does not open a new tab.)
Blue text copied from earlier section: MY
ATTITUDE TO THE BIBLE. , , ,
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During the three years leading up to the
Jesus’ Crucifixion,
while sins still existed,
, , Perhaps again see earlier section:
, , TECHNICALLY SPEAKING: SINS NO LONGER EXIST. , , ,
God the Son, God incarnate,
God in human form, Jesus:
Forgave people their sins on
an individual basis,
dealt with people on an individual basis,
did not
Forgive everyone, Luke c23 v39-43. , , ,
, , Conversely, Jesus’ Crucifixion, later, was God Forgiving everyone.
, , See earlier section: WE CHOOSE WHERE WE GO – BY FORGIVENESS. ,, , ,
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Even
though, when on Earth,
Jesus dealt with many
people,
there is only one instance
where he told someone to
stop sinning.
And even that was only to
stop the person
suffering further. John c5 v5-14,,,,,
, , I ignore John c8 v3-11, where Jesus
tells a woman,
, , who was caught in the
act of committing adultery, to stop sinning.
, , I ignore it
because I reckon it’s forged.
, , Perhaps see
earlier section: BIBLE
VERSES THAT I OMIT.
Other than the above
instance,
Jesus never told people to
stop sinning:
He only ever:
proved he was God
and
accepted them.
They then:
spontaneously changed
e.g. Luke c19 v1-10 Luke c7 v36-50.
, , , , , , Jesus did
lecture the ‘religious’
, , , , , , but to no effect. Matt c21 v23-46 Matt c23,,,,,
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Jesus
did not condemn the sexually immoral to Hell.
Mark c14 v1-9
Luke c15 John c4 v1-42
But he did condemn those who judge
others, as if they were God,
to Hell. Matt c23 See v33. Matt c5 v20,,,,,
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You
may want more than to be ‘merely’
accepted by God.
You may also want to:
a) o Get demons out of you.
, , , Perhaps get help, see earlier webpage: A better site than this one.
o Do miracles, in Jesus’
name.
, , , ‘Do’ is the verb used in the KJV. (Though see Acts c3 v12 & v16.) ,,
If so, then you’ll have to:
b) o Ask for God’s powerful Spirit. Luke c11 v9-13.
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o Renew your mind so that he can live in:
Every room of your mind
without you
getting in his way.
Every area of your life
without you ever
saying “No”.
A renewed mind
causes you to:
Live
morally purely.
Love
everyone, even those who hate you.
Forgive
everyone, even those who’ve hurt you.
Pray for
good things, for anyone.
Always do what’s right.
, , , , , Perhaps see earlier section:
, , , , , GOOD & BAD, RIGHT & WRONG.
And you can only do a) and b)
by realising that:
Jesus has already lived that way
as an example for us to
follow
and by realising that:
Jesus is human yet God,
the Son of a woman and
God,
and suffered and died
in place of all of us,
putting the rest of us
humans right with his Father.
Hence:
o Jesus’ Father is now also our Father.
Hence he is willing to give us good things
when we ask for
them. Matt c7 v7-12,,,,
o Jesus’ Father was then able to give us
his Holy Spirit,
to live inside us. Rom c8 v9,,,,
The Holy Spirit
is not only holy,
he is also
powerful.
Hence the Holy
Spirit’s power,
plus the authority Jesus’ promises give us,
enable
believers to do miracles.
, , , , See five cells
(starting Jesus
explains)
, , , , in earlier section: WHY GOD’S WORDS HAVE POWER,
, , , , and the links within
them.
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open a new tab.)
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THE ORIGIN OF HOMOSEXUALITY ETC
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An animal has a
personality that is mostly shaped by its body:
Tigers are aggressive.
Rabbits are timid.
Alligators are not to be
messed with.
Etc.
But a human has a personality
that grows independently of the body,
does not always match the growing body:
A delicately built woman may
have a forceful personality.
A big muscley man may have a
sensitive personality.
Likewise the sexual
psychology may not match the body
hence some people are
homosexual.
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Why should our brains always match our bodies?
Unlike animals, we humans artificially preserve
a staggering variety of
genes in our gene pool.
Animal generations
automatically tend to preserve
only the most successful
genes:
Zebras daren’t
change their camouflage stripes.
Giraffes daren’t
shorten their tree reaching necks.
Etc.
But we humans are eternal.
Hence we became supreme
alpha predators.
, , See earlier webpages:
, , Making the universe,.,,,,
, , and, immediately after it:
, , Evidence that animals cannot evolve to become humans,.,,,,
, , and, immediately after it:
, , More evidence that animals cannot evolve to become humans..,,,,
So,
without genetic restrictions:
our gene pool
became unnaturally large
and unnaturally
random.
, , This train of
thought is repeated, and added to,
, , later, in this
webpage.
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DESIGN
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God designed:
the material of the universe
therefore of nature
therefore of us
as second class.
, , Perhaps again see
earlier section:
, , WHY THE UNIVERSE IS SECOND CLASS
, , and immediately after it:
, , IN WHAT WAYS DID GOD MAKE THE UNIVERSE SECOND CLASS?.
We, unwittingly
& retroactively, forced God
to make the universe second class.
, , Perhaps see earlier
section:
, , IT’S BECAUSE OF US
THAT GOD IS THREE PERSONS. ,,,,,
, , Perhaps also see earlier section:
, , SO, WHERE DO TODAY’S BAD THINGS COME FROM?,,,,,,,
, , and its subsections.
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Hence
God:
Does not much like nature,
sees nature as second class
(as indeed it actually is).
Many people have nature as their
main framework,
or even their only
framework,
or they even idolise nature.
But that’s only because they
don’t yet know God.
, , Perhaps see later
section: IDOLATRY & its
subsections.
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God designed:
the material of the universe
therefore of nature
therefore of us
to produce two
biological sexes
to perpetuate and increase humanity.
But a homosexual couple:
Cannot produce children.
Hence nature produces
only a small percentage of
homosexuals.
, , Wikipedia:
Fraternal birth order and male sexual orientation.,,,
And a homosexual
relationship is not the same
as the relationship their
bodies were designed for.
Their minds match up, work
together,
but their bodies do not.
So homosexuality
is wrong:
from a design point of
view,
from a non-subjective
point of view,
from an outsider’s
point of view.
But
homosexuality is not a choice:
So it’s not a sin.
, , , More
about choice shortly.
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MORE ON
HOMOSEXUALITY
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Some
people become homosexuals
because of extreme circumstances in childhood.
If circumstances made you homosexual
then circumstances (e.g.
counselling) can reverse that.
YouTube: –
Former LGBTQers Testify:
, , If You No
Longer Want to Be Gay or Transgender,
, , You Don’t
Have to Be.,,,,,
But,
if homosexuality was already in you
then it cannot be changed,
except by a miracle. Mark c9 v23,,,
More about this in the section after next.
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In
this website I focus on those who have always
been homosexual.
Now, either they’re all
lying, or it’s a very odd wrong.
For none of them can manage
to become heterosexual
even under threat of death
in some countries.
And, in the west, those who
become Christians,
and so may want to become heterosexual,
find that they can’t.
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They
either marry, if that’s allowed . .
YouTube:
– God and the Gay Christian:
The
Biblical Case in Support of Same Sex Relationships. , , , ,
, , , , I’d say
‘Same Sex Marriage’, rather than ‘Same Sex Relationships’.
, , , , YouTube:
– The Journey of a Gay Christian:
A
Short Documentary by Kyle Williamson. , , , ,
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. . or they become celibate:
i.e. decide to
never have another sexual relationship
even though they
remain same-sex attracted.
, , , , Becket
Cook, who is celibate, says the attraction diminishes.
, , , , YouTube:
– The Gospel and LGBTQ |
, , , , Becket Cook | LifePoint Church. , ,
, , , , YouTube:
– Christopher Yuan -
, , , , A Christian Response to
Homosexuality. , , , ,
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To
conclude: homosexuals:
o Though very different from most people,
are
people,
and therefore deserve:
equal
dignity,
equal
status,
and equal
acceptance.
o Conversely, they
should not,
because they are homosexuals,
be feared or bullied.
o Cannot change others.
o Cannot even change
themselves.
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A practicing homosexual can be:
a Christian,
saved,
destined for Heaven and
knows it.
For Christianity
is not about your performance.
Christianity is about you
believing that:
God has Forgiven
all sins
by way of Jesus’
crucifixion.
I.E. God has put
all of us right with himself.
And,
due to believing the above,
you change:
Become ever more
constructive.
And, renewing
your mind, & having God’s Spirit,
ever more potent
in that constructiveness.
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As I wrote
earlier:
although:
1) homosexuality
is not a choice,
so it’s not a sin,
it is wrong:
2) from a design point of view,
from a non-subjective point of view,
from an outsider’s point of view.
Hence a
homosexual Christian,
for the second reason,
may want to become heterosexual.
Such a change would be a
miracle. Mark c9 v23,,,
Mind you, we all change
anyway, radically,
when we become believers
and from then on.
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GAY CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE
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Should
a homosexual couple
be allowed to marry in church?
I don’t know.
However, we:
o heterosexual men &
heterosexual women,
o XY & XX chromosomes,
o manly men & womenly women
(cisgender),
o the majority,
have designed the world
around ourselves.
So,
if a homosexual couple:
want to marry in
church
because they
believe the Gospel,
and the leaders:
are satisfied
that they believe
the Gospel,
yet they are still not allowed to do so,
then it must be because of
the previous paragraph
which would be tribalism,
not God.
(Such tribalism would also
operate in a democracy:
I.E. It would
cause the majority to vote against
even registry
office gay marriage being legal
were that,
specifically, being voted on.)
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You may say:
But Jesus said married
couples must be male and female.
Matt c19 v1-12
Mark c10 v1-12.,,,,,
I say:
Jesus was teaching that easy
divorce is wrong
and was probably not also
thinking about sexual orientation.
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Would
the risen Jesus:
therefore after Pentecost,
therefore certainly in New Covenant times,
have personally said (e.g. to
Paul or to John)
that homosexual marriage is
acceptable to God?
We
don’t know.
Even gay believers disagree
on gay marriage.
The Christians Becket Cook
and Christopher Yuan
hate the title gay believer.
They see themselves as only believers.
, , Perhaps see two cells,
starting (They
either marry)
, , in previous section:
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Assuming marriage has been
possible,
then a married homosexual
couple who believes:
because they believe,
will definitely
go to Heaven.
For Christianity is not about your
performance.
Christianity is about you
believing that:
God has Forgiven
all sins
by way of Jesus’
crucifixion.
I.E. God has put
all of us right with himself.
However, a married homosexual who:
believes,
and has renewed their
mind,
may find their homosexuality:
being wrong
but not being a
sin,
, , , , Perhaps see last cell
of earlier section: DESIGN.,,,,,
to be a
distraction.
A form of doubt,
of unbelief,
, , Perhaps see first two
cells of later section:
, , UNBELIEF
IS A BREAK IN THE CIRCUIT.,,,,,
that hinders, within themselves,
their prayers & commands.
, Perhaps again see five
cells (starting Jesus
explains)
, , in earlier section: WHY GOD’S WORDS HAVE POWER.
, , and the links within
them.
, , (This link does not
open a new tab.)
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Unless
you’ve completely renewed your mind
Church is no place to ‘be
yourself’:
It would be wrong, in a
church meeting, for:
a heterosexual
Christian man to do macho,
a Christian woman
to promote her charms,
a gay Christian
man to flirt.
Indeed, we should
dress as either men or women,
making sure we
pass as either one or the other.
For we are all
there only because:
a man,
whose parents were God and a woman,
was willing to be
slowly tortured to death
to make the rest
of us humans
become, in his
Father’s eyes & mind,
as if we’d never
sinned.
, , , , For the difference between sins
and wrongs
, , , , see first three cells of earlier
section: THE TWO ACCOUNTS. , ,,,
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The Father’s & Son’s act of
love towards us
was brutal, bloody, and
effective.
The resulting powerful Holy
Spirit’s indwelling of us
is gentle, polite, and
produces miracles.
Speaking
& singing at church
is a distinct opportunity
to focus on the above three
persons of God.
Hence it’s wrong to waste
that opportunity
by focussing on our love for
each other
which is what I suspect
happens in some LGBT+ Churches.
Human love for each other:
Means much in the
world
but nothing to
God.
It has not saved
us
and will not
miraculously bless, heal & deliver us.
But his love for us does both.
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CHANGING
FROM
NON-HETEROSEXUAL
TO HETEROSEXUAL
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I
reckon that there are things about us,
like:
Psychopathy.
Autism.
Asperger’s.
& many other human
qualities.
that:
Are natural in origin
even though they have no
natural purpose.
You cannot get rid of them
even if you wanted to.
You didn’t cause them.
So none of them are:
sins
or wrongs.
, , , , For the difference between sins
and wrongs
, , , , see first three cells of earlier
section: THE TWO ACCOUNTS. , ,,,
But they may be:
wrong, for you,
personally,
wrong, for you,
practically speaking,
wrong, for you,
from a design point of view.
But whether you see them as
wrong or not:
You accept it, see it as part of you.
So you manage it.
And, I reckon,
homosexuality is one of those things.
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I
reckon that Peter’s psychopathy,
and Paul’s sociopathy
, , Perhaps see later
section:
, , MORE ABOUT PETER, PAUL, & PSYCHOPATHY ETC.,,,,,
&
Paul’s asexuality
, , (section after next)
were each so well meshed into their respective souls
that God thought it unkind
to rip them out.
, , It’s
one thing to have such things ripped out in the next life
, , when everything else has
also changed.
, , But it’s quite another
thing to have them ripped out in this life.
And I reckon that God thought
that using those
qualities
would be more effective, for
ministry,
than ripping them out
(which proved to be the
case).
Nor did God prompt them
to ask him to change
those qualities,
did not give them the vision for such a miracle,
since it never happened.
Likewise I reckon that
God does not generally want
to miraculously change
homosexual people into
heterosexual people.
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However,
if you want to miraculously change
from homosexual to
heterosexual,
and:
if it’s God’s will, for you,
now,
and:
if you believe Jesus’ words
in the following Bible
texts,
and have no doubts about them, no unbelief,
, , Perhaps see later section: UNBELIEF and its subsections.
then:
God will do it.
Or:
God will either tell you why not
&/or at least reassure you as to why not.
Mark c9 v23:
Jesus said unto
him, If thou canst believe,
all things are
possible to him that believeth. KJV
, , Perhaps again see earlier section:
, , WHY GOD’S WORDS HAVE POWER.
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Luke
c17 v5-6:
And the apostles said unto the Lord,
Increase our faith.
And the Lord said,
If ye had faith as a
grain of mustard seed,
ye might say unto this sycamine tree,
Be thou plucked
up by the root,
and be thou
planted in the sea;
and it should obey you. KJV
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Matt c17 v18-20 (full account Matt
c17 v14-20.):
And Jesus rebuked the
devil;
and he departed out of him:
and the child was cured
from that very hour.
Then came the disciples to
Jesus apart, and said,
Why could not we cast him out?
And Jesus said unto them,
Because of your unbelief:
for verily I say unto you,
If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed,
ye shall say unto this mountain,
Remove hence to yonder place;
and it shall remove;
and nothing shall be impossible unto you. KJV
, , , I reckon verse 21 is forged – so I haven’t
included it.
, , , Perhaps
see earlier section: BIBLE
VERSES THAT I OMIT.,,,,,
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Mark c11 v23-24 (Matt c21 v21-22):
For verily I say unto
you,
That whosoever shall
say unto this mountain,
Be thou removed,
and be thou cast
into the sea;
and shall not doubt in
his heart,
but shall believe that
those things which he saith
shall come to pass;
he shall have
whatsoever he saith.
Therefore I say unto you,
What things soever ye desire,
when ye pray, believe that ye receive them,
and ye shall have them. KJV
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Mark
c9 v14-29: my abbreviation
A man was glad to see
Jesus.
He told Jesus that his
disciples had just failed
to cast a demon out of his
son,
so could he, Jesus himself,
help.
Jesus was exasperated by his
disciples.
The boy was brought and the
demon immediately made
the boy fall down and foam
at the mouth.
Jesus asked how long this
had been going on.
“Since he was a child” the
father said, “and the demon
moves him towards fire or
water, to try to kill him,
so can you help us?”
Jesus replied:
“If you can believe,
everything is possible for someone who
believes.”
And the man, cried out, with
tears:
“Master, I believe [in my
heart],
help me get rid of my doubts [in my
mind].”
Then, when Jesus saw crowds
converging,
he commanded the demon out
and to not return.
The boy then looked dead,
but Jesus restored him.
The disciples asked why
they’d failed
and Jesus said that they’d
needed to pray. my abbn
, , Regarding this Bible
text:
, , , See the
second cell (starting The
book of Acts.)
, , , of
later section: PRAYING & FASTING,
, , , and the
links within it.
, , , (This
link does not open a new tab.)
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THE
APOSTLE PAUL WAS ASEXUAL
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Asexuality
is:
To never be sexually
attracted to anyone.
To never find anything
attractive about having sex,
even married sex, even if
your body needs it.
It’s a natural condition,
not caused by upbringing or
environment.
It’s a sexual orientation,
as is heterosexuality and
homosexuality.
About one percent of the world is asexual.
Perhaps see: YouTube: – David Jay - Asexuality. , , , ,
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Asexuality
and heterosexual demisexuality
, , Perhaps see:
, , YouTube: – Demisexuality
in Under 4 Minutes | hmm.... , , , ,
can be more conducive
to being a Christian
than heterosexuality.
Regarding asexuality
possibly being of value these days.
See
later section: MARRY OR STAY SINGLE? ,,,
If king David had
been heterosexually demisexual,
instead of heterosexual,
he wouldn’t have committed
adultery. 2 Sam c11,,,
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Paul’s asexuality is revealed in 1 Cor c7:
If Paul’s
effortless singleness
was a gift, from God,
that he had asked for:
Then, as well as
writing that he wished others had
it,
he would also
have written that they could have
it.
But he didn’t.
If Paul’s effortless
singleness
was a gift, from God,
that God had simply given to Paul
without him asking:
Then Paul would
have told of such an enabling gift.
, , , , Like
he told of his enabling Damascus road experience.
, , , , (Acts c9 v1-22) Acts c22 v1-16 Gal c1 , , , ,
But
he didn’t.
Therefore Paul’s gift of
effortless singleness
was asexuality:
a natural gift
that he’d always
had.
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That
Paul’s singleness was not a gift
from God
explains how he found it
easy to write,
without explanation or
justification:
1 Tim c4 v1-3:
The doctrine ‘People should not marry’
is the doctrine of demons. my abbreviation
Hence also, Paul’s
marital advice was:
Of God, and wise.
But objective, not
subjective:
Hence Paul called
married sex a duty.
See: Bible Hub 1
Corinthians 7:3.,,,,,
See:
1 Corinthians 7:3
Greek Text Analysis - Bible Hub.,,
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Paul’s
gift of asexuality meant that,
in licentious ancient
Greece, where Paul preached,
he was sexually bullet
proof.
A very useful gift.
Hence,
also, Paul writes
that he would prefer that
all men were as he is.
Though he did add that we
are all different. 1 Cor c7 v5-7,,,,
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POLYGAMY, DATING, & PORNOGRAPHY.
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A
polygamous marriage
is where a man has more than one wife (or vice versa).
Polygamy is wrong because it:
increases the marriage’s
earthly complexity
but decreases its Godlike
complexity:
1) The marriage cannot become a special relationship
because there are many
relationships.
, , , Perhaps see earlier section: GOOD & BAD, RIGHT & WRONG.
2) The marriage makes possible, even probable,
spoken or unspoken:
favourites,
rivalries, & jealousies,
within the marriage.
The above two problems would still be there even in old age:
when the bond of sex may be
less/absent
but intimacy would still be
needed.
You may say: “What about King David.
He wrote many of the Psalms in the Bible
yet he had many wives?”
I say: “His lust for yet another woman drove him to murder. 2 Sam c11 – c12 v25.“
You may say: “What about king Solomon, king of Israel.
He’s in the Bible, favourably, and he had many wives?”
I say: “Ecclesiastes c6 shows he didn’t really know
God.”
Perhaps also see:
Polygamy in the Bible (and What Jesus Said about
It). ,,,,,
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The
above cell also explains the wrongness of:
multiple sexual partners
simultaneously:
o a man/woman currently having
more than
one girlfriend/boyfriend,
o an open marriage,
multiple sexual partners
chronologically:
o repeatedly casually divorcing
& remarrying,
, , , , , YouTube: – Katy Faust: The uncomfortable truth
about
, , , , , divorce, same-sex parenting, and why biology
matters.,,,,
o sequentially having many dates
or many
girlfriends/boyfriends.
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Pornography is a portrayal of loveless sexual relationships
that are temporary & shallow.
Porn is a carnal version of Heaven.
To those who do not yet know
God
that may seem like a
compliment.
But those who know God
know that porn lowers
you. 1 Cor c6 v15-20,,,
Like:
Earth is lower
than Heaven,
imperfection is
lower than perfection,
and selfishness
is lower than love,
so also:
pornography is
lower than a covenant marriage:
a “for better or for worse” marriage.
, , , , A contract is a conditional promise.
, , , , A covenant is an unconditional promise.
, , N.B. Watching porn
, , or: not having forgiven everyone who’s harmed you
, , or: some other imperfection
, , (imperfection from God’s
point of view, if not yours)
, , may well keep God’s powerful Holy Spirit (note: Holy) 1 Cor c2,,,
, , , , outside of you
, , and therefore stop:
, , , , him, through you, in Jesus’ name, healing others,
, , , , and him, through others, in Jesus’ name, healing you.
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Jesus at least implied that
watching pornography is wrong. Matt c5 v27-28
The above verse also implies that, regarding masturbation,
it’s the morality of the fantasies
that’s the thing to watch out for.
Many a Christian has found that watching porn
(sexuality being something that, for non-asexuals,
reaches deep into your soul)
encourages the demon who follows you around
to speak into that, and even other areas, of your life.
Perhaps see tenth cell
(starting Regarding
everyone having).
of earlier section: TELEPATHY,
and the links within it.
(This link does not open a new tab.)
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TRANSGENDERISM
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Recent
discoveries have meant that
the word gender has become:
more useful in a new role
than in the old role.
It used to be that, of:
biology,
orientation, & identity,
gender was connected to
only:
biology.
Hence, just as there are two biologies (disregarding intersex),
so also there used to be two genders:
1) a woman’s: ways, clothes, jobs, pastimes,
etc,
2) a man’s: ways, clothes, jobs, pastimes, etc.
But now, regarding:
biology,
orientation, & identity,
gender is connected to
only:
identity.
Hence there are now four basic
genders:
1) cisgender,
2) transgender,
3) non-binary,
4) agender.
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BODY
& BRAIN:
an object.
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MIND:
a pattern within an object,
a pattern within the brain.
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BIOLOGY.
The object is
distinguishable
early in pregnancy.
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ORIENTATION.
Whatever its beginnings
the pattern has grown
as you have grown.
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IDENTITY.
Whatever its beginnings
the pattern has grown
as you have grown.
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Man.
XY
chromosomes.
Woman.
XX
chromosomes.
Intersex.
A natural
combination of:
parts of a man
and
parts of a woman.
An intersex
woman may
have male, XY,
chromosomes,
e.g. Emily Quinn.
Or the
chromosomes
may be a
complex mix.
Famous people
with klinefelter
syndrome..,,,,,
Also see:
YouTube: –
Secret Intersex:
Neither Boy
Nor Girl
(Medical
Documentary)
| Real Stories..,,,,,
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Heterosexual.
Sexually attracted to
body & mind
of opposite biology,
& opposite gender.
Homosexual.
Sexually attracted to
body & mind
of same biology
(& any gender).
Bisexual.
Sexually attracted to
mind and body
of any biology
& any gender.
Pansexual.
Sexually attracted to
mainly the mind
of any biology
& any gender.
Demisexual.
Sexually attracted to
first the mind
then the body
of any biology
& any gender.
Asexual.
Not sexually attracted
to anyone.
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Cisgender.
A manliness
that matches
your man’s body.
A womanliness
that matches
your woman’s body.
Transgender.
A manliness
that clashes with
your woman’s body.
A womanliness
that clashes with
your man’s body.
Non-binary.
0–max manliness
plus
0–max womanliness.
Non-binary is to
gender, in the mind,
what intersex is to
biology, in the body.
(Except you don’t get
max male biology
plus
max female biology.)
Agender.
Zero manliness
& zero womanliness.
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I made up this table because it’s more
practical than the many spectrum diagrams.
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I reckon that,
if you are
a straight man, or a straight woman,
and you were asked, on a form, or on the phone,
“Are you male or female?”
and you responded correctly,
that you probably thought that you’d responded
because of your body.
But not so.
You didn’t think: “I’ve seen, or felt, my body.”
You’d think: “I know I’m a man because I like being a nerd
but I’m determined to get on with the girls”
or “because I look good in a suit but I have a comb-over”.
Likewise: “I know I’m a woman
because I’m a sharp teen who thinks men are stupid”
or “because of my family life & my kids.”
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Where did all
this angst, or joy, or satisfaction, or etc, come from?
It’s not in your body, your body doesn’t care less.
It’s in your mind.
You responded that you’re a man, or a woman:
Not because of your body
now.
But because of a large
identity
that you’ve been slowly
building in your mind.
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You may also think that you must be
a heterosexual man, or a heterosexual woman,
because:
Whatever
designed & made your body
(be it nature or God)
also designed & made
(at least the beginnings of)
your brain.
So it/he must surely have
made them
match each other.
But I say it’s just a coincidence:
An animal has a
personality
that is mostly shaped by its body:
Tigers are aggressive.
Rabbits are timid.
Alligators are not to be
messed with.
Etc.
But a human has a personality
that grows independently of the body,
does not always match the growing body:
A delicately built woman may
have a forceful personality.
A big muscley man may have a
sensitive personality.
Likewise the sexual
psychology may not match the body
hence some people are
homosexual.
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Why should our brains always match our bodies?
Unlike animals, we humans artificially preserve
a staggering variety of
genes in our gene pool.
Animal generations
automatically tend to preserve
only the most successful
genes:
Zebras daren’t
change their camouflage stripes.
Giraffes daren’t
shorten their tree reaching necks.
Etc.
But we humans are eternal.
Hence we became supreme
alpha predators.
, , See earlier webpages:
, , Making the universe,.,,,,
, , and, immediately after it:
, , Evidence that animals cannot evolve to become humans,.,,,,
, , and, immediately after it:
, , More evidence that animals cannot evolve to become humans..,,,,
So, without genetic restrictions:
our
gene pool became unnaturally large
and unnaturally
random.
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To conclude:
Biological sex forms in the body.
Sexual
orientation forms in the brain.
Gender identity
forms in the brain.
Usually the three coincide.
But not always.
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Transgender people
are those
whose gender is opposite to their biology.
Many transgenders are quite happy
just to wear the wrong clothes
(well, for them, the clothes are right).
Wikipedia:
Transgender.,,,,,
There are very few transgender
people globally,
only 0.1% to 0.6% .
Transgender Population Size in the United States:
a Meta-Regression of Population-Based Probability Samples. ,,,,,
An official
count, in the US, makes it 0.33% .
It’s not only the USA that has transgenders:
, , YouTube: – Third gender in India.
, , Hijras, the Kinnars daughters. ,,,,,
, , The Hijra are India’s historic,
nationally recognised,
, , distinct community of transgender & intersex people.
, , YouTube: – ‘I’dentity
– A documentary on
, , Gender Identity Disorder |
LGBTQ | Gazel Dhaliwal.,,,,,
, , This documentary is about Indians who are transgender:
and, don’t only
transition
(strictly
speaking: transition means
merely living the
opposite lifestyle)
but also
surgically transition.
, , THE DIPLOMAT: Meet the
Khwaja Sira:
, , Pakistan’s Transgender
Community.,,,,,
, , YouTube: – The LGBT influencers facing
arrest
, , in Saudi Arabia • The
Observers - France 24. *,,,,,
, , YouTube: – Explained: What it's really
like to be trans in China.,,,,,
It was the above:
, Two technical sites.
, Five YouTubes videos, spead out over the globe.
that proved to me that transgenderism is a real thing
and started me writing this section.
People in *Saudi
Arabia would not make this up.
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Some
transgenders have a condition called gender
dysphoria.
Gender dysphoria is:
1. an absolute need to change biological sex
2. that’s never going to go away.
(Predicting 2. is the
clever bit.)
Perhaps see: NHS
Gender dysphoria. ,,,,
Changing sex physically, with hormones & surgery,
(as best as physical sex can be
changed)
is, logically:
Not satisfactorily
reversible if it turns out to be a mistake.
Not without risks even if
it’s the right thing to do.
, , YouTube: – Why I’m Not Getting “The Surgery”.,,,
Hence
only those with gender dysphoria
should surgically transition.
Extremely few people have gender
dysphoria.
Wikipedia: Gender dysphoria.,,,
Globally,
it’s only:
0.01% male-to-female
0.0025% female-to-male.
, , , See: Epidemiology,
a quarter the way down the Wikipedia webpage.
So,
only:
3% of transgender
women (male-to-female)
have
gender dysphoria
& only:
0.8% of
transgender men (female-to-male)
have
gender dysphoria.
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Bruce
Jenner, now Caitlyn Jenner, had gender dysphoria.
YouTube: – The True Story Of How Bruce Jenner Became Caitlyn Jenner.,
Back when he was a man, he had it treated (if that’s the word)
by having himself transitioned, using hormones & surgery.
As well as being an example of surgically transitioning,
Bruce, now Caitlyn, shows us the difference between
sexual orientation and
gender identity:
He (now she) changed his
body from male to female
because his gender
identity always was, and still is,
female.
But his sexual
orientation always was, and still is,
heterosexual.
He always was, and still is,
attracted to only women.
, , I suppose that:
, , , having been used to a:
, , , , male-to-female heterosexual relationship, for decades,
, , , she cannot then force-change it to a:
, , , , female-to-male heterosexual
(& have a boyfriend/husband)
, , , , nor to a:
, , , , female-to-female homosexual
(& have a girlfriend/wife).
, , , Hence she decided to never have another
relationship of any sort
, , , (as stated in many celebrity sites).
This shows us the strength of
gender identity:
Bruce’s gender
forced him to change his biology
even though it would ‘mess
up’
his orientation.
You might say:
“Aha. Bruce didn’t change sex until the end of
(or near the end of)
a long, heterosexually married, life.
But I say:
“It must have been, for him,
an inwardly flawed married
life.”
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Here are some more transgenders
who’ve had gender dysphoria
and, as a result, had, at least some, surgery.
YouTube: – Christine Jorgensen on Joe Pyne 1966 or 1967. ,,,,,
This short clip shows that surgically transitioning is not new.
YouTube: – I Used The Men’s Bathroom (But I’m
Trans…),,,,,
Blair’s conclusion is practical. She’s
right wing.
Abigail Thorn is left-wing.
YouTube: – I Emailed My Doctor 133 Times:
The Crisis In the British Healthcare System. ,,,,,
Not everyone is as independently minded as Abigail.
Hence I’d say she had the rare ‘I’ve-thought-it-all-through’ gender
dysphoria’,
as compared to the usual
‘I-may-have-been-influenced’ gender dysphoria.
Hence I disagree with her idea of doing away with
the concept of gender dysphoria altogether.
I think other transgenders need the concept.
Here’s an unusual example of a transgender couple.
YouTube: – He's
'Feminine' & I'm 'Masculine' -
And We're In Love | LOVE DON'T JUDGE..,,,,,
They
both have the right biology and the right orientation
(so their strict religious parents are looking forwards to their first
visit).
But they each have the wrong gender
(so perhaps put the visit on hold).
Apparently, as well as being masculine in gender,
she is also bisexual in orientation (another video 3m 51s).
But,
presumably for the sake of their relationship,
she is choosing to live only heterosexually.
Transgender relationships and marriages that work.
YouTube: – What It's Like To Be In A Trans
Relationship |
LOVE DON'T JUDGE. ,,,,,
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A person’s
identity is the biggest thing in their life:
So your biggest identity may
be
your gender identity
followed by your sexual
orientation.
Though it could be your politics, or your
physique, or looks,
or something else you could
never do without,
followed by your gender,
then your orientation.
If you were a brainy asexual
then it may be intellect
first, gender second,
and orientation not even on
the list.
It’s whatever you cannot do
without.
For a Christian, who has renewed
their mind,
first on the list is: in Christ.
, , A phrase that’s used 25 times in
Acts & the Epistles.
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Miracles aside,
it’s right for
someone who has gender dysphoria
(an absolute need to change biological sex
that’s never going to go away)
to change their lives
and even surgically change their bodies.
A person, from four or five years old onwards,
knows, increasingly clearly,
whether they have gender dysphoria or not.
, , See 5 mins into:
, , YouTube: – Blair White says a loud minority of
trans activists
, , are making us all look insane’.,,,,,
It’s only logical that gender forms at four or five;
when else would it form?
That most children, at say seven or
eight:
Are fine when left in
the right clothes &
environment.
But distressed when put in
the wrong clothes &
environment,
is an indication that gender forms
at four or five.
That orientation forms at puberty
is logical and obvious.
Hence school books for pre-pubescent children:
Should, thoughtfully, include issues regarding gender.
But should never include issues regarding
orientation.
And school books for post-pubescent children:
Should, thoughtfully,
include issues regarding both.
All the time bearing in mind that there’ll probably be
no relevant children in the class.
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However:
o Pushy mums (pushing either way).
o Pushy
teachers (pushing either way).
o Schoolmates
(to impress or to fear).
o You
wanting to get likes & not get cancelled.
o Listening
to well-meaning, un-scientific, LGBT+ folk.
o Listening
to well-meaning, un-scientific, religious folk.
o The
un-scientific left, wrongly thinking,
that there’s no limit to the number of people
who could rightly surgically
transition.
o The
un-scientific right, wrongly thinking,
that no-one should ever surgically transition.
all make it less clear
as to whether you have gender dysphoria or not.
In addition:
o Latent homosexuality.
, , It’s
only logical
, , that
someone, who, at puberty onwards, will be
, , a
feminine (femme), not a masculine (butch), homosexual man,
, , would
have felt, when they were a child,
as if they were a girl.
o Temporary
pubescent confusion.
o Body dysmorphic disorder.
o Autism.
o Abuse in childhood.
o Etc.
also make it less clear
as to whether you have gender dysphoria or not.
Hence, what should be easy becomes a minefield.
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Bear in mind that a very
small percentage of all people
will ever have gender dysphoria.
Only:
0.01% male-to-female
0.0025% female-to-male.
, , From: Wikipedia: Gender dysphoria. ,,,,,
, , See: Epidemiology,
a quarter the way down the Wikipedia webpage.
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Logically, if you go through puberty,
and then consider
whether it had been the wrong
puberty,
you’d know, for certain,
whether you have gender dysphoria.
But puberty is bad enough without it being the wrong puberty.
So perhaps it’s best to surgically transition before puberty.
However, surgically transitioning, say male-to-female,
before puberty:
1. Leaves the surgeon with little (perhaps insufficient)
to work with.
2. Makes sure you will never have an orgasm
due to never having had
testosterone in your body.
, , , YouTube: – Puberty blockers are chemical
castration.
, , , Marci
Bowers (WPATH) casually reveals extent of damage). ,,
, , , , Marci Bowers has done over two-thousand
, , , , genital
reassignment surgeies.
, , , , Wikipedia: Marci Bowers. ,,,,,
3. Leaves
you less certain you’ve made the
right choice.
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So, I
suggest:
Going through the wrong
puberty
but with the support of
family and friends all the way.
Then, if you still want
surgery, to do it.
, , , N.B. Puberty makes no difference to facial bone development.
, , , , See: Wikipedia:
Facial skeleton, ,,,,,
, , , , scroll down
to: Structure / Development.
, , , Facial
bone development is to do with genes.
, , , YouTube: – What You Need to Know
, , , About
Facial Feminization Surgery (FFS) |
, , , MTF
Transgender Transition. ,,,,,
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Many LGBT+ people
are renowened for their social & creative skills.
Hence they are well placed to defend members of their group.
And rightly so.
Members of the LGBT+ group are different.
, , YouTube: – Gender | The Space Between.,,,,,
, , and:
, , YouTube: – The gender Spectrum documentary.,,,,,
Hence many are
rejected.
, , , , Wikipedia: Homelessness among LGBT youth
, , , , in the United States. ,,,,
Many attempt
suicide:
18% of LGBT+ youth.
, , , , Wikipedia: Suicide among LGBT youth. ,,,,,
, , , , As compared to 9% of non-LGBT+ youth.
And many are
murdered.
, , , , Fatal Violence Against the Transgender and
Gender
, , , , Non-Conforming Community in 2022. ,,,,
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But this mean that
some LGBT+ activists,
(who may not, themselves, be LGBT+)
thinking that transitioning is:
fluid, a matter of free
will, a matter of choice,
(rather than the
not-free-will, no-choice, scientific matter
that it actually is)
are unkind towards detransitioners & transition regretters:
They treat those who’ve successfully transitioned
as a good advert – people to
be embraced.
Regretters and
detransitioners
as a bad advert – people to be rejected.
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Hence, in
YouTube, if you enter:
transition regret
or detransition,
you’ll see a number of broken young people,
who had various psychological/social problems,
but were immediately given, by adults as well as by peers,
the one solution:
“Transitioning is what you
need.”
Hence a number of them
mistakenly changed their biological sex.
YouTube: – Detrans Awareness Day Panel Discussion
With Detransitioners
For ‘No Way Back’ Documentary. ,,,,,
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One study:
, , YouTube: – Surgical Transition:
, , Underlying Issues, Ethics & Regret
, , (Dutch Documentary - English Narration). ,,,,,
, , See: 19m 20s to: 21m 55s.
shows that only 1% of transitioners regret
transitioning.
However, the fact that one third of the transitioners
never got back in contact with the clinic, at all, after the operation,
had no comments to make whatsoever,
strongly indicates that it’s over 1%.
Indeed, see: 21m 55s to
22m 50s of the video.
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Not transitioning youngsters
who do have gender dysphoria
leads to dissatisfaction, even suicide.
But – transitioning youngsters
who don’t have gender dysphoria
also leads to dissatisfaction, even
suicide.
If say, two girls & one
boy, in a school of 3,000,
decide to transition –
that’s 0.1% of the school.
The two girls are 0.066% of
the school.
But, globally, only 0.0025% have ftm gender
dysphoria.
So, if the two girls
surgically transitioned,
then such a school would
have
26.4 times more girls
transitioning than average.
That’s fine if the school is an exception.
I.E. If there are twenty-six
other schools, ideally locally,
that have
no ftm transgenders at all.
But, if girls in nearby
schools, using social media,
were envious of the
acceptance & attention
the girls (now boys) got,
and so:
were also inspired to transition,
then there would 26 times
too many girls transitioning.
, , Percentages are from
the two cells, starting Transgender
people,
, , earlier in this
section.
, , This is what Jordan
Peterson, a clinical psychologist, is concerned about.
, , The following video shows how useful his
kind of skills are.
, , YouTube: – Detransition: The Wounds That Won't
Heal | Chloe Cole | EP 319. ,,,,,
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Transgender
people:
o Though very different from most people,
are
people,
and therefore deserve:
equal dignity,
equal status,
and equal
acceptance.
o Conversely, they
should not,
because they are transgender,
be feared or bullied.
o Cannot change others.
o Cannot even change
themselves.
Perhaps again see earlier chart: BODY & BRAIN & MIND. ,,,,,
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A
transgender man or transgender woman can be:
a Christian,
saved,
destined for Heaven and
knows it.
For Christianity
is not about your performance.
Christianity is about you
believing that:
God has Forgiven
all sins
by way of Jesus’
crucifixion.
I.E. God has put
all of us right with himself.
And, due to believing the
above,
you change:
Become ever more
constructive.
And, renewing
your mind, & having God’s Spirit,
ever more potent
in that constructiveness.
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A married transgender person who believes:
because they
believe,
will definitely
go to Heaven.
However, a married transgender person who:
believes,
and has renewed
their mind,
may find their transgenderism:
being wrong
but not being a
sin,
, , , , Perhaps see last cell
of earlier section: DESIGN.,,,,,
to be a
distraction.
A form of doubt,
of unbelief,
, , Perhaps see first two
cells of later section:
UNBELIEF
IS A BREAK IN THE CIRCUIT. ,,,,,
that
hinders, within themselves,
their prayers &
commands.
, Perhaps again see five
cells (starting Jesus
explains)
, , in earlier section: WHY GOD’S WORDS HAVE POWER.
, , and the links within
them.
, , (This link does not
open a new tab.)
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THE HEART/SPIRIT,
THE SOUL, AND SEX
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Some
Christians say that the first time you have sex
you join together spiritually.
But I reckon it’s a:
People centred doctrine,
a soul centred doctrine.
Not a:
God centred doctrine,
a heart/spirit centred doctrine.
When a couple have sex
they become one flesh
Gen c2 v24:
Therefore shall a man leave
his father and
his mother,
and shall cleave unto his wife:
and they shall be one flesh. KJV
But they do not become
one heart/spirit.
Hearts/spirits cannot blend with each
other,
cannot become
one.
, , , , A being is an eternal self-teaching structure.
, , , , So two beings cannot
become one being.
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Joining
flesh is of no eternal consequence anyway:
See later section:
YOU INHERIT THE QUALITIES
BUT NOT THE PREVIOUS CHANGES.,,,,,
There is no marriage in Heaven,
no sex in Heaven.
, , Perhaps see first four cells
, , of earlier section: NATURAL BEAUTY.
So
fornication damages only the soul
and only in this life
(we’ll be fixed, indeed
changed, in Heaven).
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You might argue:
Paul writes that, when someone becomes a Christian,
their heart/spirit blends with God’s Spirit.
1 Cor c6 v17:
But he
that is joined unto the Lord
is one spirit. KJV.”
But I say:
“It only feels that way, only seems that way.”
, , See last two cells
, , (starting The following seems
to be an exception)
, , of earlier section: OVERVIEW.
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MARRY OR STAY
SINGLE?
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Paul writes that being single is a gift 1 Cor c7 v1-17
just like being married is a gift.
You may ask:
“How can being single be a gift?”
I say:
“In biblical times &
places
leading Christians were
persecuted.
1 Cor c4 v7-14.
So
Paul’s advice to stay single, for many, was right
for there & for then.
Also, Christians who were serious
about God
wouldn’t have been bothered
with all the things people
usually fill their lives with.
For they thought they were
in the End Times,
thought that the world would
soon end.
, , For explanation for this, see
third cell (starting N.B. Between)
, , of later webpage: End Times.
Also, there was natural good to do:
due to them
expressing themselves
and their
indwelling Holy Spirit expressing himself.
And there were miracles to
do:
again, out of
human & Holy Spirit self-expressions,
and because
miracles validated the preached Gospel.
And there was the Gospel to
preach:
for there were no
Bibles yet.
Hence, being single was a
gift
in those times &
places.”
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Likewise, these days, for Christians:
In parts of the world
where there is much
persecution,
being single
is a gift:
, , , The INDEPENDENT newspaper.
, , , Christians: The
world's most persecuted people. ,,,,,
, , , Open Doors UK. ,,,,,
But, in parts of the world
where there is little/no
persecution (i.e. the West)
being married is a gift.
, , Though, if you are looking for a husband/wife,
, , consider all of third cell (starting Mind
you)
, , of earlier section:
, , GOD IS ALWAYS CONSTRUCTIVE IN THE LONG RUN,
, , and the links within it.
, , (This link does not open a new tab).
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A relevant part of the Bible says that
wives should obey their husbands. Eph c5 v22-24,,,
But the next verse (the one men conveniently ignore) says that
husbands should love their wives to the death. Eph c5 v25,,,
The above two instructions are opposite & extreme
and therefore clash with the efficient functioning
of today’s equitable Western culture.
So I suggest that you share them, adjust them, perhaps greatly,
according to each of your individual:
, , abilities, strengths, & weaknesses,
, , knowledge & experiences,
, , physical & mental needs,
, , etc,
using them to complement each other.
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Regarding a married
Christian couple’s general lifestyle advice:
, , The Set-Apart Walk: Faithful, Obedient,
, , and
Counter-Cultural Christian Living,,,,
, , A Christian website.
, , Gospel Relevance: Some Practical
, , Christian
Marriage Advice for Newlyweds,,,,
, , A Christian website.
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Regarding a married Christian couple’s
sexual activities advice:
, , We are not animals.
, , We have minds.
, , So it makes no sense for a married Christian couple
, , to limit themselves to activities
, , that the body, alone,
, , was designed for.
So perhaps see:
, , Marriage Bed tips.,,,,
, , A Christian website.
, , Healthline. ,,,,
, , A practical general health advice website,
, , so you’ll
need to search within it for specifically sexual advice.
, , But be
warned – it’s a secular website
, , so it does not
see marriage as vital for sex.
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, , Christian marriage
is only partly about what you do.
, , It’s mainly about why you do it.
1
Cor c13 NIV,,,,,
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WHY THROW AWAY THE PRESENTS?
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God made everything.
So God wants to fix everything that
needs fixing.
John c10 v10:
The
thief cometh not, but for to
steal, and to kill, and to
destroy:
I am come that they might
have life,
and that they might have it more abundantly. KJV
So, if any part, of body or
mind,
of you or of a person you’re
ministering to,
is broken or lacking,
then believe, & have no
unbelief,
and pray or command, in
Jesus’ name,
and God will repair or
improve it.
, , Perhaps see first two
cells
, , of earlier section: GOD’S
METHODS
, , and the links within
it.
, , (This link does not
open a new tab.)
, , Perhaps again see earlier section:
, , WHY
GOD’S WORDS HAVE POWER.,,,,,
, , Perhaps see the four Bible texts
, , in four cells (starting Luke c17 v5-6)
, , of earlier section:
, , CHANGING FROM NON-HETEROSEXUAL TO HETEROSEXUAL.
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But,
as God:
Made all the blessings of this life.
Empowers us to miraculously repair or improve
those blessings.
then why oh why
does Jesus want us to:
give up those blessings,
throw away the presents?
For Jesus said: ,,,
Die to this life, and don’t look
back. Matt c8 v19-22,,,
Love me more than you love your
family. Matt c10 v37-39,,,
You must take up your
cross. Matt c16 v24,,,
Take up your cross and die to this
life. Mark c8 v34-35,,,
Take up your cross and die to this
life. Luke c9 v23,,,,,
Die to this life, and don’t look
back. Luke c9 v57-62,,,
Hate your family, hate your
own life. Luke c14 v25-35,,,
Doing
all this is merely your duty. Luke c17 v7-10,,,,
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The
above list of hardship commands
does not contain a reward,
of any kind,
in this life or the next.
Hence the Beatitudes are not in the list.
Each of them is: Lose out in this life – for no reason.
There is no humbly earning,
no reward.
So they are not part of Judgment.
So, if they are done out of
anything,
they are done out of
gratitude.
Gratitude for having been
Forgiven.
They are part of
Forgiveness,
part of the Christian life.
They assume you’ve already
become a believer
even though Jesus said them
before Pentecost.
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Becoming a believer:
Not only brings you persecution
so that you don’t
feel at home here materially.
It also means you change
so that you don’t feel at home here materially.
Your heart/spirit changes your soul:
so
that you find doing good,
especially doing
miraculous good,
something you want to do,
prefer to do,
even more than
earthly pleasures,
even right
earthly pleasures.
John c12
v25:
He
that loveth his life shall lose it;
and he that
hateth his life in this world
shall keep it
unto life eternal. KJV
1 John c2 v15-17:
Love not the world,
neither the things that are in the
world.
If any man love
the world,
the love of the Father is not in
him.
For all that is in the world,
the lust of the flesh,*
and the lust of the
eyes,
and the pride of life,
is not of the Father, but is of
the world.
And the world passeth away,
and the lust thereof: **
but he that doeth the will of God
abideth for ever. KJV
, , *Lust is sex - with everything else (notably love) missing.
, , , (High sexual appetite is not the same as
lust.)
, , , **Notice it’s not:
, , , , , , You passeth away,
the world continues.
, , , It’s:
, , , , , , The world passeth
away, you continue.
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It can help, in doing
all the above,
to think of yourself as a soldier.
2 Tim
c2 v1-4:
A
soldier doesn’t get involved
in civilian
matters. my
abbreviation
Eph c6 v10-17:
The
Christian life is like a soldier’s life,
(except that
you’re constructive
instead of
destructive). my
abbreviation
, , , , See: C.S. Lewis:
Enemy-occupied territory. ,,,,,
, , , , Perhaps see Mark Hemans’ teaching:
, , , , YouTube: – The
key to walking in the Power of Jesus
, , , , is dying to the flesh.,,,,,
, , , , Also see later section: FASTING GENERALLY. ,,,
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John
c7 v37-39:
In the last day, that great day of the feast,
Jesus stood and cried [out], saying,
If any man thirst, let
him come unto me, and drink.
He that
believeth on me,
as the scripture hath
said,
out of his belly shall flow
rivers of living water.
(But this spake he
of the Spirit,
which they that believe
on him should receive:
for the Holy Ghost was
not yet given;
because that Jesus was
not yet glorified.) KJV
The above verses speak of
the anointing:
the Holy Spirit, in a
believer,
coming out of a
believer
and miraculously
impacting others.
, , , See nineteenth cell (starting As
far as I can tell)
, , , of earlier section: ABOUT BIBLICAL TEACHER-HEALERS GENERALLY.
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Jesus’ Punishment in our place
made us holy in his Father’s
eyes.
Hence his Father was able to give, to all of us,
his Holy Spirit. Luke c11 v9-13,,,
But do you want him?
, , See third cell of: Gospel
leaflet. ,,,
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And do you want to leave him where
God put him,
in the hallway of your mind.
Or do you want to make:
all the rooms of your mind,
all the areas of your life,
actually holy,
i.e. renew your mind:
so that the Holy
Spirit can live & speak & work
in all your
rooms,
through all your rooms,
without you
disagreeing with him,
without you
getting in each other’s way?
, , , , See fourth cell
(starting This
authority & power)
, , , , of earlier section: GODLY SELF-CONFIDENCE,
, , , , and the links within
it.
, , , , (This link does not
open a new tab.)
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In Matt c13 v44-46 I reckon that the pearl/treasure is:
the quiet indwelling of the Holy Spirit
or:
the powerful anointing of the Holy Spirit.
And the condition of getting it is:
, , Though not the price.
Jesus paid the price.
you
dying to the world (part of
renewing your mind).
, , , , See previous cell.
, , , , Tip: Rather than feel cheated, resentful:
, , , , convert all your unwilling losses of the past
, , , , into willing sacrifices of the present.
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Though,
actually, the cause & effect is
the other way round:
It’s not actually:
b) You dying to the world (part of renewing
your mind)
causes
you being able to use the Holy Spirit,
causes
a) you doing miracles
causes
people & demons
to persecute you.
It’s actually:
a) You doing miracles
causes
people &
demons to persecute you
causes
pressure to stop
doing miracles
causes
your heart/spirit
to fight back, renew your mind,
causes
b) you dying to the world (part of renewing
your mind)
causes
you to cope with
persecution
causes
you to continue
doing miracles.
Jesus phrased it
the wrong way round
because the people he was preaching to
were Old Covenant, of the world not (yet) of the Spirit,
were used to having to pay for everything here.
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